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Old 12-01-2008, 01:37 PM   #1 (permalink)
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It could be any of the following

1. A one night stand
2. A fuck friend
3. A casual Girl Friend

So what do you do? Would you tell you parents? Maybe your older and knocked up a mistress, a "fuck friend" or just someone casually.

Of course I'm talking about a mistake and something you really did not want or intend happening. What is your course of action and what would u do to handle this situation?

1. Abortion?
2. Have the baby but just take care of it financially?
3. Run Away


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Old 12-01-2008, 01:39 PM   #2 (permalink)
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Moved this to where it should be...this one may get ugly
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Old 12-01-2008, 01:49 PM   #3 (permalink)
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If this was just a casual night's activities (hint hint), then the only right thing to do is to put up the child for adoption - assuming neither boy or girl are willing to raise the child. A lot of couples can't have kids for whatever reason, and this is the "best" way to deal with an unwanted pregnancy. Especially if it was a result of innocent teenage love.

Morally, you have a responsibility to the unborn kid. Just my opinion.
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If this was just a casual night's activities (hint hint), then the only right thing to do is to put up the child for adoption - assuming neither boy or girl are willing to raise the child. A lot of couples can't have kids for whatever reason, and this is the "best" way to deal with an unwanted pregnancy. Especially if it was a result of innocent teenage love.

Morally, you have a responsibility to the unborn kid. Just my opinion.

What if your a scared 18 year old kid who just wants to get the whol ordeal over with and sweep it under the covers?

A fly by night abortion may be ideal for them correct?
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Old 12-01-2008, 02:02 PM   #5 (permalink)
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Old 12-01-2008, 02:03 PM   #7 (permalink)
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What's the abortion procedure like. Her parents can't know and neither could mine.
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Old 12-01-2008, 02:03 PM   #8 (permalink)
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What if your a scared 18 year old kid who just wants to get the whol ordeal over with and sweep it under the covers?

A fly by night abortion may be ideal for them correct?
possibly.

I still think you have a responsibility even if you are a scared teenager.

Far be it from me to answer this as i've never been in the position myself. I totally believe that it's purely the individual's choice alone and i wouldn't cast judgememt either way.

If it was me and my hypothetical girlfriend, i'd go for adoption. But hey, that's the nice thing about living in Canada (different options).
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What's the abortion procedure like. Her parents can't know and neither could mine.
Wouldn't have too
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Old 12-01-2008, 02:06 PM   #10 (permalink)
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Just a quick procedure?

Anyways her period is two days late so Im freaking out man.
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Just a quick procedure?

Anyways her period is two days late so Im freaking out man.
2 days???


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Old 12-01-2008, 02:08 PM   #12 (permalink)
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K we did it on the 12th. It's supposed to start on the 29th....no period.

Anyone wanna help me out...
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Old 12-01-2008, 02:09 PM   #13 (permalink)
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Oh that's a good question. I don't know what I would do. Initially I thought abort it - but emotional scars. Then I thought give him/her up for adoption - more emotional scars. Pray for a miscarraige - emotional scars. You're doomed emotionally whichever way you go.

I think I would put him/her up for adoption and pray the kid wont be too mad at me when (WHEN) he/she finds out.
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K we did it on the 12th. It's supposed to start on the 29th....no period.

Anyone wanna help me out...
First thing first....was it her first time in a while???

Secondly...Relax, it is far to soon to worry
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Old 12-01-2008, 02:11 PM   #15 (permalink)
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K we did it on the 12th. It's supposed to start on the 29th....no period.

Anyone wanna help me out...
Mate as an XX I say to you both: relax. Periods are late, especially when seasons change.
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Her 3rd time ever......
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Oh that's a good question. I don't know what I would do. Initially I thought abort it - but emotional scars. Then I thought give him/her up for adoption - more emotional scars. Pray for a miscarraige - emotional scars. You're doomed emotionally whichever way you go.

I think I would put him/her up for adoption and pray the kid wont be too mad at me when (WHEN) he/she finds out.
Adoption emotional scars are gonna be 1000x the abortion emotional scars, methinks..... particularly if you go on to have a family.
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Her 3rd time ever......
Then relax.....it'll come..I did the same thing in high school...was freking out during exams...

I will bet even money...she is not pregnant

I supposed it should be asked though....condom?...ummm where did you ummm?...ya know?
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Oh, periods can be late.. I wouldn't freak out yet.

I mean, I'm pro-choice for the woman - if you were man enough to put it in, you gotta be man enough with the consequences - whether she keeps the child or not.
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Just a quick procedure?

Anyways her period is two days late so Im freaking out man.
I don't think the procedure is very long. From what I read, it takes an afternoon with the rest of the day for physical recovery. It's the emotional scars that hurt.
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