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Old 11-25-2008, 02:54 PM   #81 (permalink)
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It's a case to case basis though TO. Sometimes you just know. I can't recall when I told my wife I first loved her, but I knew within a month or so she was going to be the one I marry. Weird stuff, but your mind and body knows best.
I'll agree that every case will likely be different but I've never been one to believe in the "love at first sight" thing. How can you possibly know someone so well so fast? For me? As a general rule I tend to think that you have to have spent EVERY holiday with them (so basically a year) before you really feel like you have a pretty handle on them. A lot of times (esp. in the first 2 months or so) you're just getting people who are still on their "best behaviour" anyway.

Maybe this is why I'm still single lol.
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Old 11-25-2008, 02:55 PM   #82 (permalink)
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and the sex/boring thing...
it was good, dont get me wrong... just blah... like a chore... i dunno...it was just too much. when you get woken up at 3am to bone for a week straight, then you'll know what im talking about.
Holy cow Wilt .... doing your part to save women all around the TDot eh?
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Old 11-25-2008, 02:55 PM   #83 (permalink)
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Yes.

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Old 11-25-2008, 02:58 PM   #84 (permalink)
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when you get woken up at 3am to bone for a week straight, then you'll know what im talking about.
I see nothing wrong with that.

Maybe just change the time, and all would be well
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Old 11-25-2008, 02:58 PM   #85 (permalink)
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I believe in comfort, and lust... not true love.
people are too selfish and the world is too materialisticfor true love to survive.

and the sex/boring thing...
it was good, dont get me wrong... just blah... like a chore... i dunno...it was just too much. when you get woken up at 3am to bone for a week straight, then you'll know what im talking about.
You forget who your talking to?

I am usually the one doing the waking up though

My god man, if you get bored with sex them someones doing it wrong. Might I suggest either some games, toys, etc?
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Old 11-25-2008, 02:59 PM   #86 (permalink)
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I found the article pretty shallow. But I'm also very happy not to be part of the dating world. I've only been on one real date in my whole life. Being friends before "hooking up" officially works pretty good. And why does marriage have to then follow?

Being in Love takes a certain amount of good luck, and isn't something you can just find. But I think you have to be open to the idea, and not just be full of anger or whatever along the way.
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Old 11-25-2008, 03:00 PM   #87 (permalink)
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Like LX said, just be open to the idea and dont go looking for it.

When it comes, you will know.
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Old 11-25-2008, 03:00 PM   #88 (permalink)
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I'll agree that every case will likely be different but I've never been one to believe in the "love at first sight" thing. How can you possibly know someone so well so fast? For me? As a general rule I tend to think that you have to have spent EVERY holiday with them (so basically a year) before you really feel like you have a pretty handle on them. A lot of times (esp. in the first 2 months or so) you're just getting people who are still on their "best behaviour" anyway.

Maybe this is why I'm still single lol.
Again to each their own, but I totally understand and can appreciated your morals TO. I too thought the same way until I met "the one". You'll know that feeling too when it happens. Not only will you get a "semi" in your pants, but you'll get a huge knot in your stomach 24-7 and it won't be because of indigestion.
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Old 11-25-2008, 03:00 PM   #89 (permalink)
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I get what you're saying, to a point.

And yes, I DID love my ex.

But I knew we wouldn't work, by the end. He had horrible traits that no woman should live with. And I didn't let myself fall for SJ for a long while. Ask him - he fought me. He knew I wasn't ready, but he also knew he was good for me.

And yes. I love SJ. Does that mean we'll be together forever? Not necessarily. It might, but it might not. Doesn't lessen my love for him at all.

I see lust as a PART of love. Not the whole thing.

I've been in love with someone when the lust faded away for me. It killed me.

And comfort is also a part of love.

For me, love is all-encompassing. It's lust, comfort, friendship, respect, honour, and so much more.

But as I tend to say on here, to each his own.

i TOTALLY respect that.
thanks 'cuda.

i guess i wont feel that way until i look into the eyes of my baby... or something similar.
good points everyone.

i just dislike the word... its lost all of its meaning for me thats all.
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Being in Love takes a certain amount of good luck, and isn't something you can just find. But I think you have to be open to the idea, and not just be full of anger or whatever along the way.
Well said.
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Old 11-25-2008, 03:05 PM   #91 (permalink)
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I'll agree that every case will likely be different but I've never been one to believe in the "love at first sight" thing. How can you possibly know someone so well so fast? For me? As a general rule I tend to think that you have to have spent EVERY holiday with them (so basically a year) before you really feel like you have a pretty handle on them. A lot of times (esp. in the first 2 months or so) you're just getting people who are still on their "best behaviour" anyway.

Maybe this is why I'm still single lol.
My wife had just moved here and I was given her number by a coworker of hers to "show her around"

After a couple nights of easy conversation on the phone I went to pick her up, as soon as she opened the door my heart both stopped and sped up at the same time and I knew right then and there. She did too and we were engaged 2 months later.

Eight years have passed for me and I love her more every day.

When you find it you will understand.
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Old 11-25-2008, 03:08 PM   #92 (permalink)
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Old 11-25-2008, 03:11 PM   #93 (permalink)
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hey Snooch:
Jessica Alba calls and tells you she wants to give you a BJ.

would you do it?
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hey Snooch:
Jessica Alba calls and tells you she wants to give you a BJ.

would you do it?
Based on his previous post, I'm guessing there's no way in hell he would.
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of course he will say no.
but in his mind, he knows he would.
and viola... my work here is done.
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of course he will say no.
but in his mind, he knows he would.
and viola... my work here is done.
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hey Snooch:
Jessica Alba calls and tells you she wants to give you a BJ.

would you do it?
No,








she's not on my list.








Seriously........no desire at all.
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Old 11-25-2008, 03:17 PM   #98 (permalink)
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of course he will say no.
but in his mind, he knows he would.
and viola... my work here is done.

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Old 11-25-2008, 03:18 PM   #99 (permalink)
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very nice discussion going on here.

insightful, funny, deep...



i haven't found "the one" either, but i agree with insiders argument.
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This is the best thread ever.

I love discussions like this.

Keep 'er goin!

(side note - can't wait til SJ gets wind of this thread, and comes on here only to disagree with everything I've said and more or less tell me that I'll be an old maid all my life )

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