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Old 02-12-2009, 08:33 AM   #201 (permalink)
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^^The underlying porblem Jackson is that this chick needed $200 worth of booze just to spend the night with you.
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Old 02-12-2009, 11:00 AM   #202 (permalink)
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Jesus.

Where did you meet this girl?
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Old 02-12-2009, 11:12 AM   #203 (permalink)
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Yeah, I've been to Lt.'s Pump on many occasions funk. Damn claustrophobic there all the time.

Anyhow, no excuse at all for her not to at least offer to pay for some of the drinks. Doesn't necessarily mean you have to accept her money, but the least she could of done was offer to pay some.

So, did you end up going on another date with her? For your sake I hope not.

I mean, when I went on my first date with my now wife I couldn't stand her, but at least she had the decency of paying for some of our date.
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Old 02-12-2009, 11:48 AM   #204 (permalink)
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she was a classmate of my friends girlfriend. she said that she warned me that she might not be my type. might be/might not be....such a scapegoat.

i honestly don't care about paying for all the drinks. it was just the principle of the situation. i felt like i was there to entertain her, pay for her and serve her. it was unfavorably geared towards her.

there was no second date. she called me saying we should do it again. i said great and never called her back.

me and my latest would pay date for date. i made more money, so if something was more expensive, i'd pay. i thought it was great.

how bad was it with your wife? awkward? or disinterested?
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Old 02-12-2009, 11:57 AM   #205 (permalink)
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the crazy part for me is that these things always seem to go unspoken... nobody puts it on the table and discusses it.... it's like a strange dance, always waiting for cues and reacting to them. i'm very glad not to have to be in that world.
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Old 02-12-2009, 12:10 PM   #206 (permalink)
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how bad was it with your wife? awkward? or disinterested?
She seemed to disinterested and after dropping her off from our date I just had to roll my eyes. The date wasn't awkward, it painfully uncomfortable because I couldn't read her at all and I kind of thought she was full of herself. No flow at all.

Then a week later she emailed me asking if I wanted to go see the Matt Good Band play at "Bluesfest" here in Ottawa and the date was a full 180 compared to our first date. Mind you we were both loaded and high for the concert, but I guess the alcohol helped both of us open up more. Then 3 years later we got hitched and come July of this year we'll of been together for 8 years.

I guess if there's a moral to the story ... first impressions aren't everything.
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Old 02-12-2009, 12:12 PM   #207 (permalink)
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I waited 29 years to meet someone who I clicked with.

It takes time and as I believe I said earlier in this thread, when you least expect it.
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Old 02-12-2009, 12:14 PM   #208 (permalink)
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She seemed to disinterested and after dropping her off from our date I just had to roll my eyes. The date wasn't awkward, it painfully uncomfortable because I couldn't read her at all and I kind of thought she was full of herself. No flow at all.

Then a week later she emailed me asking if I wanted to go see the Matt Good Band play at "Bluesfest" here in Ottawa and the date was a full 180 compared to our first date. Mind you we were both loaded and high for the concert, but I guess the alcohol helped both of us open up more. Then 3 years later we got hitched and come July of this year we'll of been together for 8 years.

I guess if there's a moral to the story ... first impressions aren't everything.
I thought the moral was "get stoned".
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Old 02-12-2009, 12:16 PM   #209 (permalink)
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I thought the moral was "get stoned".
I thought it was even if you know it isn't going to work out, still try and get your horn scraped at all costs.
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Old 02-12-2009, 12:37 PM   #211 (permalink)
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I guess if there's a moral to the story ... first impressions aren't everything.
i completely agree. it's hard to escape outside distractions every time you meet someone.
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Old 02-12-2009, 12:39 PM   #212 (permalink)
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I gotta admit, most guys that I've dated I didn't want anything to do with at first.

You're right, Doc.
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Old 02-12-2009, 02:08 PM   #213 (permalink)
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It's the ones that your smitten with on first sight alone that are trouble.
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Old 02-12-2009, 02:38 PM   #214 (permalink)
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soooooo.... i'm guessing you didnt get none eh Funk?
i'm guessing this since you didnt call her back.
or maybe you did get some and lost interest.
personally, if i spend 200 bucks on a girl on the first date, i better have a smile on my face the next day (if you know what i mean).
but funny thing is, its kinda like a double-edge sword, because ive noticed that if a girl is too easy and theres no challenge (in this case, fooling around on date 1) i get so bored and lose interest completely.
its weird.
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Old 02-12-2009, 02:48 PM   #215 (permalink)
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but funny thing is, its kinda like a double-edge sword, because ive noticed that if a girl is too easy and theres no challenge (in this case, fooling around on date 1) i get so bored and lose interest completely.
its weird.
Fuck, it took 3 weeks before I let my wife down my pants.
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Old 02-12-2009, 02:57 PM   #216 (permalink)
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i've had a hard time respecting girls i slept with on the first date. i'm neither a dirtbag or an asshole (in real life ) i just don't react well to it when things go that fast. i'd rather have the girl hold out until the second. comes across so much more classier
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Old 02-12-2009, 04:38 PM   #217 (permalink)
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the crazy part for me is that these things always seem to go unspoken... nobody puts it on the table and discusses it.... it's like a strange dance, always waiting for cues and reacting to them. i'm very glad not to have to be in that world.
I second that emotion.
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Old 02-12-2009, 05:13 PM   #218 (permalink)
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i've had a hard time respecting girls i slept with on the first date. i'm neither a dirtbag or an asshole (in real life ) i just don't react well to it when things go that fast. i'd rather have the girl hold out until the second. comes across so much more classier
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ive had a few experiences where its been first date sex, and even sex before we even went on the date... and each time afterwards i was so over it the next day. the funny thing is, its exactly what i wanted at the time, but the next day i dont even want to talk to the giirl anymore.
i know that sounds horrible, and total asshole-like. but i just lose all respect for the girl and put them in the same category as all the other chicken-heads. its like the girl loses everything thats special about her.
i cannot stress this enough to my female friends - if they really like a guy - play hard to get and never give it up too soon, otherwise you'll lose all your power and the guy wont even care anymore.
its kinda backwards because many girls think that the guy will like them more if they do it, and you both want it, so why not.... but it actually is the opposite. and it leaves both parties feeling like crap.
i would always feel like shit because i'd create such a great emotional connection with the girl, then whamo, right after the deed - i dont even want to talk to her again... and she ends up feeling crushed...which makes me feel horrible.
does that happen to anyone else? or i'm i just a weirdo?
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i would always feel like shit because i'd create such a great emotional connection with the girl, then whamo, right after the deed - i dont even want to talk to her again... and she ends up feeling crushed...which makes me feel horrible.
does that happen to anyone else? or i'm i just a weirdo?
lol.... that's physiological, brother... hormone driven......
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I can't wait to have my first or go on my first date
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