Originally Posted by TORaptor4Ever
And re: the "You can be TOO nice" stuff I totally understand that. I'm not talking about guys who are totally spineless and have absolutely no opinion of their own.... it can be annoying at times though to see good girls date complete dickheads when that's "supposedly" not what they want.
You watch Sex & the City? Funny that Carrie ended up marrying Big and not Aiden....
Screw Big. I woulda gone with Aiden.
I've dated the super-duper nice guys. Sweet to a fault.
I've only BRIEFLY dated major assholes.
For me, it only works if you're a nice, compassionate and loving guy, who may have a bit of edge the same way I do.
I know lotsa girls DO go for bad boys, but they always end up hurt and unhappy.