Originally Posted by jeffb
it's not as if she was asking for the money. this guy was trying to raise 5k to give to her to send her on a trip. it's not the guy's fault it ended up going up to this amount.
i think she should give this guy some of the money, give some to charity and enjoy the rest.
As triano would say........what 'ya gonna do?
Give most of it to charity, but proper charities, which require research. A lot of them have 50 percent of the donations go to workers fees, including 15 percent of it to the CEO (well this is for NGO's). A lot of money in the right charity can make a massive difference.