Originally Posted by LX
It would be one thing if the games were meaningful, but they just aren't.
that makes sens to me.
if the team struggles, and you are tired, and then you have a big personnal problem, it's tough.
i don't spoke about me often, i don't like that. but last year my grandfather had declared cancer. and i went on with my life. i realise only some month after the doc said to him he was out of it (careful with the "out"...) that at some point it affects me and my life, my wife, etc... more than we imagine on the moment !
i don't say he has the same problem. i hope not for him, but some times even when you think you are tough, a big adult/men whom carries his life head up, you realize things/shits happen and take over your head, and also your body, even if you don't think that the main reason.
so like i said for DD, problems happen, shits more than often, and dealing with them are not that easy for every one, so a little respect when nobody know nothing. THX.