Originally Posted by pzabby
i respect your answer, but really it hasnt answered why i shouldnt. if its simply because of god, christ, religion, etc then it really doesnt matter for me. im not giving into societal expectations or what not, i just want some. is there any other reason i'd regret it?
and 'cuda, why shouldnt i sleep with someone i dont care about is my real question. I mean whats the significance because i honestly dont see it. its just another act which supposedly feels awesome..
Sometimes, I think the people who might feel bad about it feel that way because they feel ashamed which means they care too much about what other people might think. It's more common with women because society likes to throw around a couple words - slut and whore - to demean and control them. If you're comfortable with yourself and don't give two craps what other people might think, go for it.