Originally Posted by TORaptor4Ever
the best of which was the suggestion that everyone should just try to be patient enough to make SURE that they find a person who's right for them.... rather than simply finding someone so that they're "not alone".
Too many people bow to societal pressure and get themselves into situations that aren't really right for them.... IMO anyway.
That sounds like a suggestion by somebody who is still looking for their "one true love".
Not a realistic view imo.
First, you have to give people the benefit of the doubt imo, if they're getting married, they must THINK that person is the right person for them.
Maybe it's for the wrong reasons, but why else would they be doing it unless they thought it was the right choice. People don't intentionally make poor decisions. The fact of the matter is everybody changes. What was the right choice or felt like the right choice at one time doesn't always turn out to be a good relationship.
Their is no SURE thing. Their aren't soulmates out there, crafted perfectly for each and everyone of us to seek out and marry.