i have a friend who was married to a woman who already had 2 kids of her own from a previous relationship.
anyways, long story short - her kids where about 9 and 10 and hated his guts, he tried but pretty much had no relationship with these kids whatsoever.
they were married for a few years until he found out she was cheating on him.
they got divorced and now he has to pay her child support for the 2 kids that arent even his.
if thats not totally fucked, i dont know what is.