Originally Posted by Aar_Canada
What about the people who are going along all fine, get married for whatever reason, and then having that whole marriage thing hanging over their head...it wrecks the relationship. It happens. People who have been together for years get married and then in a year, they're finished. "I shouldn't have gotten married". I've met people like this.
Well, some people also stupidly think that marriage can save a relationship. That's why a lot of people take the plunge, and it blows up in their faces most of the time.
If you have a good relationship, you're happy, they're happy, and you want to get married... then the actual marriage shouldn't change it.