Originally Posted by 'trane
um, it works in reverse too. a man can initiate, and can take the woman's money if she is the primary breadwinner. it goes both ways, equally. nice try.
Get the fuck outta dodge man.
The system is terribly skewed in the woman's direction, and I can cite about a trillion cases. This coming from a man who grew up with a dead beat dad never paying a cent.
Thats like saying "well there are black guys who hate whites, so nice try saying there's too much racism toward blacks"
You might be making a point that not all Divorces go in a woman's favor, but honestly, trane', don't be that guy ok,no offence but it's annoying because anyone over the age of 30 who has lived and heard and seen know that your scenario is so the minority it might as well not even exist.