Originally Posted by Barracuda
I won't disagree with this. Sometimes we want something so badly, we think we have it. When I look back at the dude I was "supposed" to marry (before you ask - no, not SJ. This was years and years ago), I thank my lucky stars that I never did. Cuz I would've gone through with it; I fooled myself. Wonder what the drunk did with my ring. Meh.
Anyways... I still hope to one day be married with kids. I do. But you're right - you have to find someone who wants the same things as you. The dumbest thing anyone can do is fool themselves. And it happens way too often.
I've attributed the attitude better to be alone than to settle for what I think is best. The attitude is working fine I'm still alone