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Old 08-13-2010, 10:40 AM   #31 (permalink)
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Originally Posted by jeffb View Post
This is true too. The fact for me is that i was engaged at 21, have lived with 3 different women and i know that at this point at least, i love my freedom. I'm in a 4yr relationship currently where we see each other twice a week and it's heaven and thankfully neither one of us wants kids. I think if anything you need to find someone who wants the same things out of life.
I won't disagree with this. Sometimes we want something so badly, we think we have it. When I look back at the dude I was "supposed" to marry (before you ask - no, not SJ. This was years and years ago), I thank my lucky stars that I never did. Cuz I would've gone through with it; I fooled myself. Wonder what the drunk did with my ring. Meh.

Anyways... I still hope to one day be married with kids. I do. But you're right - you have to find someone who wants the same things as you. The dumbest thing anyone can do is fool themselves. And it happens way too often.
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