Originally Posted by takman_777
go ahead and ask me anything you want! we are all friends here! and mostly adults ... i think, maybe gurk isn't yet, but he is close lol
So, you have an open relationship with your wife (wife, right?)... how does it make you feel when she comes home after a night with another man? Whether good or bad feelings, I'm just curious. I can't imagine it myself.
And has there ever been a time when another man made her positively giddy and happy and "lovehead"? How would THAT make you feel?
If you have nothing but good feeling about all of the above, and love your lady dearly and are living as happily as possible, then I suppose I envy that in some ways. You've found a security with yourself, and someone else, that most never will.