Originally Posted by TORaptor4Ever
Honestly... if that were really the case... why would you ever get married?
It's all about security. You get married, and you get a legal contract involved, which gives you a sense that a source of sex and companionship has been secured on a legal and/or religious level.
Once you have a marriage established, that actually gives you a certain confidence and security, and also a discontent. This is what makes cheating so appealing.
When I had my first couple of girlfriends, I found it way easier to talk to other girls, and the confidence to get with these other girls was higher than when i was single.